Shirley Heselton Schuler

Shirley Heselton Schuler August 20, 1945 – August 23, 2024

Shirley Heselton Schuler, born on August 20, 1945, in New Haven, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on August 23, 2024, in Pittsboro, North Carolina, at the age of 79, following a stroke.

Shirley was a devoted wife, mother, sister, and grandmother whose main focus and mission in life was her family. She was preceded in death by her beloved parents, Gerald and Evelyn Heselton.

Shirley is survived by her husband of 58 years, Harry Richard (Dick) Schuler; her sister, Beverly Hanson; her three sons, Richard, Brian and Todd; her daughters-in-law; and her nine grandchildren. Shirley’s fondest pastime was traveling to visit her grandchildren in Connecticut, New York, Indiana, Washington, Colorado, and Wisconsin. She held a strong and unique relationship with each of her grandchildren, cheering them on in cross country, soccer, and hockey, and encouraging their academic and professional journeys. Shirley’s son Richard Schuler and Suzanne Milardo live in Simsbury, CT, along with her grandson Ethan Schuler. Her grandson Alexander Schuler also lives in Simsbury. Her granddaughter Victoria Schuler resides in New York City, and Hannah Schuler attends Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI. Shirley’s son Brian Schuler and his wife Delyn live in Washougal, WA. Her granddaughter Heidi Foskert lives in Minneapolis, MN with her husband Peter. Her grandson John attends Notre Dame University in South Bend, IN. Shirley’s son Todd Schuler and his wife Lindsey live in Denver, CO, along with her grandchildren Carson, Mackenzie, and Owen. Carson Schuler attends Regis University in Denver.

An alumna of Fisher College in Boston, MA, Shirley had a fulfilling career, first working for many years as a Medical Secretary and later transitioning into Banking with Bank of America. Her dedication and work ethic were evident in everything she did.

A breast cancer survivor, Shirley was passionate about giving back to her community. She dedicated her time and energy to volunteering and raising funds for Relay for Life, helping to support others facing cancer.

Her warmth, kindness, and unwavering support will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She touched the lives of many with her generous spirit and love for her family.

The family will receive friends Tuesday, August 27, 2024, from 1:00PM-1:50PM at Donaldson Funeral Home & Crematory Griffin Chapel. The funeral service will follow at 2PM with Rev. Bob Wachs presiding.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Shirley’s name to The UNC Lineberger Comprehensive Cancer Center at unchf.org/chapelridge.

Condolences may be made at www.donaldsonfunerals.com.

Donaldson Funeral Home & Crematory is honored to serve the Schuler family.