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Holocaust survivor speaks at Nashua North

By GEORGE PELLETIER - Milford Bureau Chief | Feb 22, 2020

Telegraph photo by GEORGE PELLETIER Holocaust survivor Kati Preston delivers remarks at Nashua High School North on Friday.

NASHUA – With themes of tolerance and acceptance, Holocaust survivor Kati Preston spoke at Nashua High School North Friday morning, recounting her wealthy upbringing and the demise of her Jewish heritage and culture.

She talked about how being a survivor of the Holocaust shaped her life and inspired her to defy discrimination.

Gov. Chris Sununu introduced Preston for the first of what is scheduled to be a series of several speaking engagements throughout the state. Sununu added that as a father of three, the world young people will face alarms him.

“The biggest problem that we see, not within our schools, but in our entire culture and entire society is simply respect,” he said. “That thing we call empathy.”

Sununu, 45, said his generation, “screwed it up.”

“We somehow thought it was OK to treat someone like garbage if we weren’t looking them in the eye,” Sununu said regarding the invention of social media.

Sununu then introduced Preston, born in Transylvania in 1939, who spoke of her tragic story of survival.

Preston said although she was never in a concentration camp, she was a hidden child. She was persecuted and even hunted.

“I don’t want people to forget,” she said. “And I don’t want people to deny it. It’s the best documented genocide in human history.”

The daughter of a Catholic mother and a Jewish father, Preston recalled an upbringing of privilege, having servants and a governess, before her life changed, in what she called, “a slow erosion of our liberties and an erosion of our rights.”

“Jews could no longer go to college,” she said. “And then, Jews could no longer go to high school. And the Jewish children could only go to Jewish schools. And I wasn’t allowed to sit on my favorite bench in the park anymore because that wasn’t a Jew bench. And we weren’t allowed to go to the local swimming pool because we would contaminate it.”

Preston said people began disappearing. The maids were gone. Her Fraulein was gone. And soon, for the first time, she would experience an act of anti-Semitism.

“My mother said, ‘I have a present for you,'” Preston said. “She brought this beautiful yellow star that she made out of gold material, and put it on my coat. And she said, ‘Let’s go get some pastries.’ And a man comes opposite me and I look up at him expecting something nice about my star – and he spits in my face. And the spit runs down my face onto my star. And I said to my mother, ‘He hates stars,’ never thinking that it’s me he hated.”

The 80-year-old, whose Jewish family of 28 members was exterminated in Auschwitz, was eventually saved by a Christian peasant girl, who hid the a 5-year-old Preston in a hay barn.

“I remember thinking there would be kittens and puppies,” she recollected, thinking of what life would be like on a farm. “We got to the barn, which had an attic above it. She said, ‘You’re going here. You have to stay in the barn.’ And I asked, ‘Why?’ And she said, ‘Because people want to kill you.'”

Preston said the idea that someone would want to kill her was an alien notion. She thought the woman spoke in jest.

“I didn’t want to stay there,” she remembered. “I cried and cried and cried. I wanted my mother. I wanted my beautiful room and my toys and I didn’t want to be alone. I cried for days on end.”

After surviving the Holocaust by hiding in that barn, she immigrated to Israel and studied in Paris to become a journalist. Later, she ran a successful fashion business.

Preston said she misses her father and there is not grave for her to visit. She had no place to grieve.

“I speak for the dead because they cannot speak for themselves,” she said. “Now, I have a wonderful, multicultural family. I have four sons, and every time I gave birth to one of them, I was giving the finger to Hitler.”

Preston said she has never been as happy in her life as she is right now, adding that the birth of her grandchildren completed her circle.

“Hatred is not acceptable,” she said. “We must love each other. I speak against scapegoating. I speak against prejudice. I am frightened of prejudice. I’ve seen what it can do. It has awful consequences. You have to think, ‘Who is the other in your life?’ We each have somebody other. Could it be a Muslim? Could it be a black person? Could it be a gay person? Could it be someone that you just don’t like? We have to stop ‘othering.’ Do something kind every day if you can. Do something for humanity. Go talk to that kid that no one will talk to. Stop bullying. Help someone cross the road. Do something for someone else. We are all connected.”

Preston praised the generation of high school students that she addressed, calling them, “great.”

“I talk to you people,” she shared. “I feel so much compassion and love coming. It’s such a healing thing. You guys are different. And you’re not prejudiced– you don’t care if someone is blue, green, yellow, gay, straight. It’s up to you.”

She implored the students about the power of education, of learning, of knowledge. And how knowledge can teach tolerance and acceptance. She praised the power of one.

“Look at this woman who saved me,” she said. “Look at what one good deed can do.”


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